Epic Journey: A Childhood Memoir and Other Minnesota Stories
It's Minnesota Alumni's quarterly books roundup
Memoirs about abusive and
neglected childhoods are
hardly a rare commodity.
Mary Karr’s The Liars’ Club,
Jeannette Walls’s The Glass Castle, and
Tara Westover’s Educated—great books all—
spring immediately to mind, each featuring
a girl-child narrator/adult author wrestling
with her painful early years. But rarely have
I read a memoir as delicately wrought and
convincingly told from
a child’s point of view
as Jeannine Ouellette’s
The Part That Burns: a
memoir in fragments
(Split/Lip Press).
Ouellette, a longtime
Minneapolis writer and
teacher, studied journalism at the University
of Minnesota and now
works as an editor here.
Born in 1968 in Duluth,
she was the product of
teenage parents who
split while she was still a
preschooler, which led
to a childhood spent
hopping among her
parents’ various houses and apartments in
Wyoming and Minnesota and, worse, among
the various stepfathers and boyfriends
attached to her mentally ill mother.
The book starts with a capsulated version
of her childhood, cleverly told through a
series of dogs representing each period.
The fat Cairn Terrier of chapter one belongs
to Ouellette’s mother in her later years, by
which time she had returned to her native
Duluth and was living alone in a squalid
apartment. A mutt named Petey is next, a
companion of Ouellette’s early childhood
who is tormented by her stepfather, Mafia—a
foreshadowing of Mafia’s malevolent nature,
which makes up a dark subtheme.
By the time the author has worked her
way through Brandy the retriever, Charlie
the Pekingese, Trixie the Scottish Terrier,
and Smokey the Keeshond, the reader has
developed a deep understanding of the
author’s peripatetic, neglected childhood.
Shuttled among a troubled mother allied
with equally troubled men, an uninvolved
father, and stepmother who clearly prefers
her own children, Ouellette somehow
manages to grow up fairly intact, enroll in
college, and marry (at a young age) a kind if
overbearing man.
Later in the book, we get further glimpses
into the author’s life, both through a succession of stories about New Year’s Eves and
a mother-daughter conversational reminiscence between Ouellette and her youngest
child, Lillian Ouellette-Howitz.
It is only when Ouellette, then in her 20s,
produces Lillian and her two siblings in
quick succession that she comes fully into
her own, struggling mightily—and successfully—to grow into the sort of attentive,
engaged, deeply loving mother she herself
had always longed for.
Along the way, the reader will enjoy a
compelling story full of fascinating characters, always rooting for the brave, resilient
girl at its heart.
A very different challenge is represented
in Hudson Bay Bound: Two Women, One
Dog, Two Thousand Miles to the Arctic
(University of Minnesota Press), Natalie
Warren’s (Ph.D. expected in ’23) tale of the
challenging canoe trip she and Ann Raiho
undertook from Minneapolis to Hudson
Bay. Inspired by Eric Sevareid’s 1935 classic,
Canoeing with the Cree, the college friends
set out to follow his 2,000-mile route from
Minneapolis to Hudson Bay—the first
women to make the expedition. Along the
way they encounter the ecological devastation of the Minnesota River, the dangers of
huge Lake Winnipeg, and some tense times
as teammates (at one point they were communicating only by written notes), but also
the glorious sights of moose, polar bears,
Northern lights, pearly pink sunrises, and
wild, free-flowing waters.
Southwest of Raiho and Warren’s voyage
lies the land of the Dakota, which they call
Mni Sota Makoce. In Daybreak Woman: An
Anglo-Dakota Life, (Minnesota Historical
Society Press) Jane Lamm Carroll (M.A.
’83, Ph.D. ’91) tells the remarkable story
of Anpao Hiyaye Win or Jane Anderson
Robertson, a Dakota/white woman whose
life spanned most of the 19th century and
bridged two worlds. In this book, Carroll
ably accomplishes what she sets out to do:
to “put women and Dakota people back into
the narrative of Minnesota history.”
Tales of more recent Minnesotans are
featured in Staring Down the Tiger: Stories
of Hmong American Women (University of
Minnesota Press), edited by Pa Der Vang
(M.S.W. ’03, Ph.D. ’07).
This collection of 33 stories, essays, and
poems by Hmong women is the second
publication assembled by the St. Paul-based
organization Hnub Tshiab: Hmong Women
Achieving Together. Contributors range
from 70-year-old Song Yang, whose first
husband was killed in Laos during the Vietnam War, to Douachee Vang, a far younger
woman for whom that country is familiar
only as a setting for stories told by older
relatives. Throughout the book are themes
of immigration and displacement—and the
stories of many more women forced to
bridge two worlds.
For a strong contrast—the tales of
one white man firmly ensconced in one
Southwest Minneapolis neighborhood—pick
up a copy of Fear and Loving in South Minneapolis (University of Minnesota Press) by
Jim Walsh (B.A. ’90).
In this collection of his columns from
the now defunct Minneapolis community
newspaper the Southwest Journal, readers
will come to know and love the people and
places of the author’s Lake Harriet neighborhood. Enjoy his evocative descriptions of
night swimming, neighborhood musical jams,
the magical Lake Harriet rose garden, and
park benches dedicated to lost hometown
rockers—and try not to be jarred by his
occasional abrupt departures to a friend’s
Montana cabin or the Bogotá hostel where
he lived while adopting his children.
Lynette Lamb (M.A. ’84) recently completed Strokeland, a memoir of her husband’s life-altering stroke and its aftermath.